Women holding women.
Mothering each other.
A space that holds the woman, not just the mother. Real healing. Real support. No performance required.
A space that holds
the woman, not just
the mother.
Mother Me Mothering You exists for the woman who is doing everything and still wondering if it’s enough.
It is a place where healing is real, not polished. Where being supported feels like being seen.
This is the personal mission of Elaine Harvey — a maternity nurse, sleep consultant, and mother with 24 years of experience and a very clear understanding of what it means to parent without a blueprint.
She built this for the woman who is trying to break the cycle. The one who knows that when she heals, something shifts — not just for her, but for her child.
Four truths we come back to.
Nervous System as Ecosystem
The mother’s nervous system is the child’s first environment. Regulation starts with her.
Cycle Breaking
Choosing to parent differently takes more than love. It takes awareness, support, and someone to hold the space.
Co-Regulation from Confidence
Calm parenting is a skill, not a personality trait. It starts with understanding your own nervous system first.
Rebuilding the Village
Motherhood was never meant to happen in isolation. Community is not a luxury. It is a requirement.

24 years.
20,000+ families.
One very clear reason why.
Elaine Harvey is a maternity nurse, early parenting specialist, and gentle sleep consultant based on the Gold Coast. She is Australia’s first internationally recognised gentle sleep consultant.
Mother Me Mothering You is where her personal and professional mission converge. She built it for the mother who is trying to break the cycle.
The podcast.
Honest conversations about motherhood, nervous system health, cycle-breaking, and what it really takes to raise a child when you are still figuring yourself out.
Why I started this podcast
The reason this space exists and what Elaine is here to say.
The mother’s nervous system is the child’s first environment
What co-regulation really means and why your calm is the greatest gift.
Cycle breaking — what it actually costs and why it’s worth it
Honest about the weight of doing things differently to how you were raised.
One-on-one. Intimate. Held.
For the mother who is ready to go deeper. Who needs more than content — she needs someone to walk alongside her.
A space to exhale.
Carefully curated retreats for mothers who need to be held by something bigger than a screen. Earthy. Unhurried. Real.
The village is being rebuilt.
Motherhood was not meant to happen alone. There is something that happens when women sit together — without performance, without competition — and just tell the truth about how it is going.
Stay close.
Letters from Elaine. No newsletter noise. Just what is happening, what she is thinking about, and what she is offering next.
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